tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3836574951497200294.post1210041028899540214..comments2023-05-22T12:51:31.433+01:00Comments on She Smiled the Widest Smile: Victim MentalityKaitlyn S. C Hatchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08445361760658470586noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3836574951497200294.post-35028999319968822382012-04-17T11:43:41.454+01:002012-04-17T11:43:41.454+01:00Totally! Dropping the storyline can be super diffi...Totally! Dropping the storyline can be super difficult but that's what needs doing. And because you can see it when you do it you are better equipped to have compassion for those who simply don't want to change their victim habits.Kaitlyn S. C Hatchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08445361760658470586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3836574951497200294.post-82437270261621422012012-04-16T22:45:45.967+01:002012-04-16T22:45:45.967+01:00I can see bits of this in myself sometimes. The c...I can see bits of this in myself sometimes. The challenge is to just move on.Benhttp://notinthepast.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3836574951497200294.post-9671846226883447912012-04-16T14:56:24.779+01:002012-04-16T14:56:24.779+01:00Thanks for sharing! Yes, I believe people with thi...Thanks for sharing! Yes, I believe people with this mentality can be very frustrating if you let them. But I know what it's like to want attention or to feel a bit wrapped up in myself so I try to have compassion for them instead.Kaitlyn S. C Hatchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08445361760658470586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3836574951497200294.post-83408824764521635892012-04-16T14:46:46.063+01:002012-04-16T14:46:46.063+01:00Wow this is a great post. And so true. I have le...Wow this is a great post. And so true. I have learned to look at life the way you stated. A learning experience. You have to roll with the punches and be able to adjust when things unexpected come your way. But you're right. A lot of people would rather view themselves as helpless. And I like your perspective. Have compassion for them b/c it has to be hard living that way. What a great way to view it!Holly from 300 Pounds Downhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13281919665062150209noreply@blogger.com